Life is not meant to be lived in solitude and with today’s technology, it’s easier than ever to meet new people and make new friends. It’s so much simpler to find people with the same interests as you than it ever was before and to connect with people who like the same things as you. But being friends with someone is not as simple as sending them a friend request on Facebook. You still need to put in some effort if you want to have an authentic friendship. Friends share things with each other, good times, bad times, and everything in-between. It can be hard to open up to people and sometimes we open ourselves up to getting hurt but that’s all part of the journey. We might have friendships that last our entire lives while others are fleeting but all friendships are important because they help us connect to the world around us and learn about ourselves.
But what do your friends really think about you? Maybe some of them aren’t shy to tell you but others may just keep their mouths shut when it comes to their real thoughts about you. Do they actually think that you’re a nerd or maybe even a drama queen? It’s time to find out once and for all what your friends REALLY think of you.
You invite your friends over to watch movies - what are you watching?
Who doesn’t love a movie night with friends? There’s nothing quite like snuggling down with a huge tub of popcorn, a few drinks, and your closest buddies to enjoy a few aimless Hollywood thrills. If it’s movie night at your place which of these titles are you most likely to choose?
It’s your turn to cook dinner for your pals – what are you making?
Okay, so it’s Friday night and you’ve invited your friends over for the evening. You’ve told them that you will organize dinner and now it’s time to start getting everything ready. After a quick supply run you return with everything you need – what are you going to make for them?
What was the last thing you read?
Reading is the best way to learn new things but what you choose to read says a lot about you and your personality. Do you only like to read things that are entertaining or are you the type of person who likes to learn new information all the time? What was the last thing you read?
What is your dream destination?
If you could go anywhere in the world, if cost and time were no issue at all, where would you choose to go? Would you want to go to a place with plenty of sunshine and things to do or would you rather travel to a destination brimming with historical significance? The destination you choose says a lot about what your friends think of you.
It’s your birthday – how are you spending it?
Everybody loves their birthday and why shouldn’t you? It’s your special day, and you deserve to have at least one day of the year filled with nothing but presents, cake, treats, and people who love you. If you’re lucky enough to have a few good friends they’ll probably all want to spend the day with you. What will you be doing?
You find $100 in street – what do you spend it on?
It’s just an ordinary day and you’re walking down the street when out of the corner of your eye you spot something on the sidewalk. You go to have a closer look and discover a crumpled up $100 bill. There’s no one else in sight so you decide to pick it up. What will you be spending it on?
What is your dream job?
Most of us are not lucky enough to be working in our dream job – just yet that is. That’s because we often have bills to pay and need to take whatever work we can get to cover our expenses. But if you could have your dream job tomorrow – what would you be doing?
How often do your friends ask you for advice?
Part of the beauty of friendship is having someone to share your problems with. It helps us to feel that we are not alone in this big crazy world and sometimes our friends are also able to give us really good advice. But how often do your friends ask you for your opinion on their problems?
Which of these is your favorite TV show?
Even if you only like to watch TV every now and again you probably still have a favourite show right? Are you more likely to tune in for a light-hearted show with a few laughs or do you prefer something grittier, maybe even something scary? Everyone has a favorite – what’s yours?
You decide to leave your job – how do you tell your boss?
Hands up anyone who has never thought about quitting their job. No-one? That’s what I thought. We’ve all had day dreams about quitting our jobs to embark on adventures and a life of leisure instead of being stuck in the rat-race. If you no longer had to work how would you tell your boss?
When you go out with your friends what do you drink?
Sometimes all we need to feel better is a night out with our friends with a few drinks and a couple of laughs. It’s a great way to unwind and just forget about the world for a while. When you venture out for a night on the town with your buddies what is your drink of choice?
What was the last item of clothing that you purchased?
There are two types of people in this world – people who love shopping for clothes and people who would rather go for a root canal than spend an afternoon picking out a new wardrobe. But it’s something that we all have to do at some stage or another – so what was the last item of clothing that you bought for yourself?
You can choose one pet – which of these do you choose?
It’s been scientifically proven that owning a pet can do wonders for your mental and physical health (unless you have allergies that is!) and most people do enjoy having animals around them. Although they do require constant upkeep pets can be your best friends. If you had to give one of the below pets a home, which one would you choose?
How do you respond to bad news?
Life is full of ups and downs and we are just along for the ride. Sometimes you’ll be flying high; with one success after another and other times, it will feel like nothing ever goes right. That’s all part of life but our friends can help us deal with the bad times. How are you most likely to respond to getting bad news?
Who is your favorite Superhero?
Even if you’re not a big movie fan, there must be a superhero that you identify with. The special powers that you admire say a lot about your place in your friendship circle. Are you always the one everyone turns to for help or are you the friend that needs to be rescued over and over again? Which of these superhero’s do you like best?
What is your idea of a perfect date?
So if you are married, imagine for a moment that you are single. If you’re single then there’s no imagination needed! Your dear old pals have decided to set you up on a date with someone they think will be perfect for you. Where are the two of you going to have this perfect date?
Your BFF is feeling down – how do you make them feel better?
Everyone has bad days but if you have a close friend in your life you can talk to them about it. Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on when things don’t go they way you hoped. When life gets your buddies down and they turn to you for help, what do you do?
What’s your favorite mode of transport?
How do you like to get around? Are you the kind of person who prefers to walk everywhere (and stay in shape at the same time) or are the friend who just cannot live without their Uber app? Maybe you are the rebel in the group who likes to drive a big bad motorbike or perhaps you enjoy driving yourself?
What is your biggest turn-off?
We’re all looking for certain characteristics in a potential mate but most of the time we can accept that they have a few flaws – after all, no one is perfect right? But many us also have a specific set of turn-offs and if you spot these in your date you can be sure that there won’t be a second date. Which of these is your biggest turn-off?
What music do you and your friends like to listen to?
Music and friends are great combination – perfect for lifting your mood and making you feel good about life. Do you and your friends like the same type of music? You just can’t have a get together without a few tunes right? So when you get together with your buddies what music will you be listening to?
The cops knock at your door looking for your roomie. What do you do?
So you and your buddy are chilling at home – playing a few games and chatting when suddenly there’s a knock on the door. You go to the door and ask who it is and a policeman responds saying that he is looking for your roommate. Apparently, he got up to a few high jinks the night before. What do you do now?
You and your friend go out for coffee – what do you order?
Most of us can’t go a day without a caffeine fix. Coffee gets us going but it’s also a perfect way to connect with our friends. What could be better than a hot cup of java and some light conversation? When you and your friends meet at the local mall for a coffee date what do you usually order?
You and your friend see an old lady struggling to cross the street – what do you do?
The way that you treat older people says plenty about the type of person that you are. After all, older people are our living links to history and we can learn a lot from them if we treat them with the love and respect that they deserve. When you see an old lady struggling in the street what is your reaction going to be?
You and your friends need to raise some extra cash – what are you doing?
You are your buddies went out for a night on the town but things got a little out of hand and now all of you are flat broke. It’s still a week before payday and if you don’t find a way to make a few extra bucks you’re going to be in for a boring time. What do you do to raise extra funds quick?
It’s your BFF’S wedding day – how are you likely to embarrass them?
The big day has finally arrived – for your friend that is – and you are invited to the big event. You make sure that you’re looking your best and behave throughout the ceremony but at the reception, things start to go a little sideways. How are you most likely to embarrass your BFF at their wedding day celebrations?
Which of these could you absolutely not live without?
We shouldn’t lust after material things but we do it anyway. These are our creature comforts and they make life worth living. Which of these items could you absolutely not live a day a without and which ones could you happily leave behind? Do you need your daily gym fix or is it music that fuels your fire?
What’s your favorite form of social media?
Let’s talk about social media for a moment. These days almost everyone has at least one social media profile and for some of us posting updates and pictures is as essential as breathing. When you want to connect to the world via social media which of these is your favorite platform?
If you could bring any one of these celebs back from the dead who would it be?
It’s a sad fact of life that nobody lives forever but imagine for a moment that you had the power to bring back one of these four celebrities for just one night to hang out with you and your friends. Which of these stars would you want to chill with for the evening?
You tell your friends to meet you at an amusement park. Where will they find you?
So you and your friends have decided to go on an adventure together and your destination of choice is the local amusement park. It’s sure to be a day filled with fun and laughs but you get there long before the rest of your friends. Where will they find you when they get there?
How are you most likely to respond to bad service in a restaurant?
We’ve all been in this position before – you go out to a new restaurant with your friends for a quick bite but the entire outing is almost ruined by poor service. The waitress is moody and unhelpful and the food leaves a lot to be desired. How are you most likely to respond in this situation?
It’s breakfast time – what are you having?
Breakfast is the most important meal of the day – especially when you need your energy after a night of partying with your pals. So when you wake up the next day feeling ravenous are you more likely to make yourself something to eat at home or go out for a meal? What will you be having?
If you’re not at work or at home, where are you?
Most of us have a set routine and if we are not at work or at home we’re probably out enjoying some leisure time. If your friends were to swing by your place and find that you aren’t there where are you most likely to be? Maybe getting some exercise or attending a class? Or are you most probably out doing some socializing?
You and your friends go on a road trip – what are you likely to be doing?
It’s road trip time for you and your buddies and the excitement is in the air. You load up the car, make sure your phones are charged, and head off on a new adventure. During the road trip, what are you most likely to be doing? Are you taking responsibility for the driving or are you usually the one goofing off?
Which of these desserts are you most likely to choose?
You and your friends meet up on a Friday night for dinner and a few drinks. After the meal, you all decide to order some dessert to satisfy your cravings. The menu is packed full of delicious options and everyone wants something different. What are you going to be having?
Which of these is your least favorite chore?
Oh housework – the bane of existence. If you are very lucky then maybe you have someone to do all the dirty work for you but if you’re anything like the rest of us, it’s up to you to make sure that your living area is clean and tidy. Few people will say that they love housework chores but which of these is your absolute least favorite?