Are You A Bad Girlfriend? Take This 30 Second Quiz

There seems to be a lot of focus on whether or not a man is worthy of becoming a future husband or the level of character a man has. Yet, it's not always the man's fault when it comes to the quality of a relationship or determining whether or not the couple will make it to the aisle. Sometimes, women have to do a bit of reflection to see whether or not their actions and behavior has something to do with how well their relationship is going. It's easy to blame the other person in the relationship if it's not moving at the right pace or heading in the right direction but not everyone can truly know and understand their shortcomings.

In fact, many women have difficulties when it comes to seeing their own character flaws or seeing how their behavior can be quite a turn-off to their boyfriends. While they say that people don't change, having a bit of self-awareness can definitely help with small improvements over time. Whether you're in a relationship and want to know if you're the problem or you're just curious about how you're viewed by a boyfriend, take our 30 second quiz and see if you're truly a terrible girlfriend.

Question 1

Have you ever cheated on your boyfriend?

There are some people that think that it is wrong to cheat when you're in a committed relationship but there are others that think that it doesn't really count if you're aren't married. Have you ever cheated on your boyfriend?

Question 2

What are your thoughts on your boyfriend having female friends?

There are many differing opinions on whether or not men and women can be friends. While some people think that it's possible to have a platonic relationship, others aren't so sure. What are your thoughts on your boyfriend having female friends?

Question 3

What would be your reaction if you found out that your boyfriend was cheating on you?

No one wants to think about what it would be like to be cheated on but it actually says a lot about a person and their relationship to think about how they would react. What would be your reaction if you found out that your boyfriend was cheating on you?

Question 4

How would you react if your boyfriend had a roommate that you didn’t like?

There are many people that are forced to share their living expenses with a roommate in order to save enough money to live alone. Yet, not all roommates are great for having romantic relationships. How would you react if your boyfriend had a roommate that you didn’t like?

Question 5

Are you affectionate towards your boyfriend in public?

While there are some people that are completely disgusted by public displays of affection, not all affectionate gestures are big vulgar bouts of groping and making out. Sometimes, the small affectionate gestures can be truly meaningful. Are you affectionate towards your boyfriend in public?

Question 6

Do you buy presents for your boyfriend?

When it comes to buying presents in a relationship, it's not just women that should be the only receiver for special holidays and birthdays. Yet, not all women believe that their partner is worthy of receiving a gift. Do you buy presents for your boyfriend?

Question 7

How is your behavior towards your boyfriend when you’re sick?

No one ever enjoys being sick but some people seem to take it better than others. While some people can get through it without much complaint, others can tend to be miserable to be around. How is your behavior towards your boyfriend when you’re sick?

Question 8

How well can you take a joke?

Some people are able to laugh at themselves and take a joke quite easily. Yet, there are other people that seem to get their feelings hurt every time a joke is made in their presence. How well can you take a joke?

Question 9

How agreeable would you say you are when it comes to eating out with your boyfriend?

When it comes to dining out, some people seem to be far more agreeable than others. This can cause some trouble in a relationship if both parties are super picky. How agreeable would you say you are when it comes to eating out with your boyfriend?

Question 10

Do you ever find yourself dreading plans you’ve made with your boyfriend?

While there are some people that relish the idea of going out and spending a night on the town with their boyfriends, the situation is different when the relationship is rocky. Do you ever find yourself dreading plans you’ve made with your boyfriend?

Question 11

Do you have a Plan B for someone else you might want to date if things fall apart with your boyfriend?

When in a committed relationship, people are supposed to have all their eggs in one basket but that's not always the case. Do you have a Plan B for someone else you might want to date if things fall apart with your boyfriend?

Question 12

Do you help your boyfriend with his grooming?

Women are typically thought of as nurturers but not all women are willing to take on an active role in helping their boyfriends with their grooming and maintenance of things like hair and nails. Do you help your boyfriend with his grooming?

Question 13

Have you ever had romantic feelings for your boyfriend’s best friend?

For many girlfriends, part of being in a relationship means having to spend time with your boyfriends’ buddies. In fact, there are often many instances where a girlfriend will be the tagalong while out with her boyfriend and his best buddy. Have you ever had romantic feelings for your boyfriends’ best friend?

Question 14

Do you ever bake for your boyfriend?

Not everyone can boast being June Cleaver but there are many men that have dreams of being with a woman that can whip up a sweet treat in the kitchen. Being a good baker can actually help to win over a man. Do you ever bake for your boyfriend?

Question 15

Do you ever think about having children with your boyfriend?

Considering how well your partner would do as a father is a sign that you are looking at this relationship for the long term and not just something to waste time. Do you ever think about having children with your boyfriend?

Question 16

How often do you find yourself worrying about your boyfriend’s health?

Part of truly loving someone revolves around thinking about their wellbeing. Ensuring that the person you're in a relationship with is taking care of themselves is a sign of true love. How often do you find yourself worrying about your boyfriend’s health?

Question 17

Would you make a drastic change to your hair without consulting your boyfriend?

While looks aren't supposed to be a factor in how much you enjoy your partner, the truth is that physical attraction is extremely important (especially for men). Would you make a drastic change to your hair without consulting your boyfriend?

Question 18

Would you ever play a prank on your boyfriend if he was passed out?

It's quite common for people to play pranks on others while they're asleep or while they're incapacitated due to a crazy and drunken night. Yet, not everyone thinks it's appropriate. Would you ever play a prank on your boyfriend if he was passed out?

Question 19

Do you take an interest in your boyfriends’ interests?

While there are some couples that can boast having the same interests, many people have completely different preferences on what they find interesting. Yet, a really great partner takes an interest in what the other person finds important. Do you take an interest in your boyfriends’ interests?

Question 20

Do you ever been sloppy drunk in front of your boyfriend?

Everyone has undoubtedly had a time or two when they weren't exactly stable after having a few drinks but it isn't something to be proud of. In fact, it can be quite embarrassing. Do you ever been sloppy drunk in front of your boyfriend?

Question 21

What are your thoughts on your boyfriend playing video games?

Multiplayer video games have become hugely popular in recent years, whether it's adventure based or shooter games. They have become so popular that the gaming industry has started to cater towards female gamers as well. What are your thoughts on your boyfriend playing video games?

Question 22

How do you react when you feel that you’ve been wronged?

There aren't many people in the world that can truly say that they've never been wronged by someone in their life. Yet, the only thing that can truly be defined is how a person reacts to it. How do you react when you feel that you’ve been wronged?

Question 23

How critical are you with your boyfriend?

No one wants to date someone that's constantly criticizing but there are some people that just can't seem to tone it down. Being overly critical can be a deal breaker for many people but some people don't even realize when they're doing it. How critical are you with your boyfriend?

Question 24

How often do you take your boyfriend with you to go shopping?

Women are known for their love of shopping but men don't often have the same enthusiasm for it. Whenever going to the mall, people will inevitably see a man having to wait for a woman while looking utterly bored. How often do you take your boyfriend with you to go shopping?

Question 25

Do you ever mention your boyfriend’s weight to him?

While everyone understands that women aren't exactly known for loving people bringing up their weight, sometimes people can overlook men's feelings when it comes to their weight insecurities. Some men can be extremely sensitive about their weight. Do you ever mention your boyfriend’s weight to him?

Question 26

What do you think about the way your boyfriend dresses?

There are some men that are known for having an incredible amount of fashion sense but not all men are blessed with the ability to truly pull an outfit together. What do you think about the way your boyfriend dresses?

Question 27

How well do you compromise with your boyfriend?

They say that the ability to compromise really shows a person's ability to grow and maintain relationships. Compromising can shorten the length and ferocity of an argument and can be a great way to work things out in a productive way. How well do you compromise with your boyfriend?

Question 28

How honest are you with your boyfriend?

They say that being honest is one of the most important things in a relationship but some people have difficulties really telling the truth to their partner. Not everyone is able to unveil all of their deepest truths to another person. How honest are you with your boyfriend?

Question 29

How loyal are you as a girlfriend?

When it comes to being loyal as a girlfriend, there's more to it than just foregoing other men. Being truly loyal means having your man's back during difficult times and sticking by him through thick and thin. How loyal are you as a girlfriend?

Question 30

How trusting are you as a girlfriend?

They say that trust is a major element of being in a committed and functional relationship but not everyone is able to truly trust their partner. From former heartbreak to just having a skeptical nature, some people can't fully trust anyone in their lives. How trusting are you as a girlfriend?

Question 31

How well is your conversation with your boyfriend?

Having great conversation in a relationship is a great way to gauge whether or not the union will last. Anyone can have fun if they're constantly going out to exciting venues but sparkling conversation can ensure a good time no matter where you are. How well is your conversation with your boyfriend?

Question 32

Do you take care of your boyfriend when he’s sick?

While men are supposed to be strong at all times and completely self-sufficient, all of that can go out of the window once they become sick. There will inevitably be some times when your boyfriend will need taken care of. Do you take care of your boyfriend when he’s sick?

Question 33

How far are you willing to go if your boyfriend asked you to dress up with him for Halloween?

Dressing up in different costumes can be great for novelty parties or for Halloween but not everyone is keen on putting on a ridiculous costume. How far are you willing to go if your boyfriend asked you to dress up with him for Halloween?

Question 34

Do you ever badmouth your boyfriend to your friends?

One of the biggest mistakes people make when they're in a relationship is badmouthing their partner to their friends. While they may need some advice on certain things, completely bashing their boyfriend can be a huge mistake. Do you ever badmouth your boyfriend to your friends?

Question 35

Would you role play with your boyfriend if you knew it turned him on?

Role playing is often seen as something that is completely polarizing with people. While some people think of it as a great way to get someone in the mood, others are completely repulsed by the idea. Would you role play with your boyfriend if you knew it turned him on?

Question 36

Who generally gets to pick out the movie when you’re out with your boyfriend?

Going to the movies is thought of as one of the favorite things to do while dating but not everyone tends to get their pick when it comes to what is seen at the theater. Who generally gets to pick out the movie when you’re out with your boyfriend?

Question 37

How emotional are you around your boyfriend?

Women are often criticized for being far too emotional, which can sometimes be a huge turnoff for men. While there are some men that are fine with revealing their own emotions and dealing with women's emotions, not everyone feels the same way. How emotional are you around your boyfriend?

Question 38

How punctual are you when you meet up with your boyfriend?

When you're dating, there will inevitably be times when you'll have to meet up with your partner. Not every meeting will be the standard pickup at the front door but meeting up can cause some difficulties for those that aren't punctual. How punctual are you when you meet up with your boyfriend?

Question 39

Would you be willing to go with your boyfriend to see a couple’s counselor if he asked you?

People are starting to become far more open to counseling and mental growth and many celebrities have come out to divulge the fact that they have sought couple's counseling prior to marriage. Would you be willing to go with your boyfriend to see a couple’s counselor if he asked you?

Question 40

Do you ever surprise your boyfriend by wearing sexy lingerie?

Men and women often have a completely different idea of what they consider sexy and not all women find lingerie titillating. Yet, some girlfriends make sure to keep things spicy through some sensual lingerie. Do you ever surprise your boyfriend by wearing sexy lingerie?

Question 41

What would be your reaction if your boyfriend was invited to a bachelor party with strippers?

Some people feel like watching a strip show is completely harmless and a right of passage but others think of it as completely vulgar. What would be your reaction if your boyfriend was invited to a bachelor party with strippers?

Question 42

How adventurous are you in the bedroom?

While people often get on men for not being good in bed, it's important to note that women play a part in how much spark is found between the sheets. This is something that can be integral in making a relationship work. How adventurous are you in the bedroom?

Question 43

Would you be willing to maintain a connection with your boyfriend through video chat if you two were forced to spend an extended amount of time apart?

While it's incredibly important to spend quality time together, there are some situations where a couple will be separated. Would you be willing to maintain a connection with your boyfriend through video chat if you two were forced to spend an extended amount of time apart?

Question 44

How often do you get a drink for your boyfriend?

While people don't expect every woman to be on par with professional bartenders, making a good drink at home is actually quite a skill. Many men think that even a woman just grabbing a beer for her man can be incredibly attractive. How often do you get a drink for your boyfriend?

Question 45

How often do you cook your boyfriend’s favorite foods?

While everyone enjoys a night out at a five star restaurant, it's not always possible to have a fine dining experience. Couples often try and save some money by cooking at home but not every woman is willing to do that. How often do you cook your boyfriend’s favorite foods?

Question 46

How often do you pay for the meal when you’re out with your boyfriend?

There was once a time when it was completely expected for a man to pay for a woman out on a date but time has started to change. How often do you pay for the meal when you’re out with your boyfriend?

Question 47

What are your thoughts on your boyfriend watching sports?

Men are often generalized as being lovers of sports and are often big fans of going to sports bars or watching games at home. Yet, not all women are equally as enthusiastic about sports. What are your thoughts on your boyfriend watching sports?

Question 48

Would you lie for your boyfriend so he could get a discount?

One of the most popular episodes of Seinfeld was when Courteney Cox was a guest star, playing the role of Jerry's girlfriend. She lied to the dry cleaner and pretended to be his wife. Would you lie for your boyfriend so he could get a discount?

Question 49

Do you picture your boyfriend ever becoming your future husband?

When it comes to dating, the main reason why many people enter a committed relationship is to see whether or not it will turn into something far more substantial as a marital union. Do you picture your boyfriend ever becoming your future husband?

Question 50

Do you ever picture what your life will be like with your boyfriend when the two of you get old?

While being with someone when they're young and healthy is one thing, having a life with someone during the senior years is completely different. Do you ever picture what your life will be like with your boyfriend when the two of you get old?

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