Tell Us About Your Relationship And We'll Tell You If He's The Right Guy

The question 'am I with the right guy?' is an age-old query. This is a concern that has naturally plagued women all around the globe. It's a question that unites women across generations and cultures. It's not uncommon to have doubts about a relationship, and many of us wonder whether the guy we're with is worth all this time and effort.

We live in a world that's continually changing, and we're fortunate enough to be spoiled for choice where most things are concerned. So, it's not unsurprising that our dating life would be any different! Naturally, this is both a blessing and a curse because it's sometimes difficult to know what we actually want in a relationship.

There's nothing worse than wasted time; it's one of the few things you can't get back. So, working out whether the guy you're with is right for you is imperative. Preferably sooner rather than later! The quicker you can get some clarity on this; the better it will be for the pair of you in the long-run.

With that in mind, we've created this quiz to help you decide whether your man is worth holding on to!

Question 1

Can you tell him anything?

We're a firm believer that your boyfriend should also be your best friend. You should be able to tell him everything and anything without fear of judgment. Your man should know you better than anyone else, and that only comes from open and honest communication from the word go. You shouldn't fear his opinion of you, no matter what crazy stuff you've done in your past!

Question 2

Has he ever cheated on you?

Mutual trust and respect are vital to a successful and healthy relationship. Often if a man cheats, the trust is irrevocably broken. Plus, when it comes downs to it, he didn't show you the level of respect you deserve. The bottom line is if he's cheated- you can do better; he's probably not the one for you.

Question 3

Do you feel the need to check his phone?

If you're secretly checking his phone, Facebook messenger, internet history etc. then you clearing don't trust your man! Why is that? Has he ever given you reason to not trust him? Either way, you need to address this because a lack of trust will kill your relationship.

Question 4

Does he make an effort to be romantic?

It's hard to label romance because its subjective and will vary from relationship to relationship but however you describe it- your man needs to be making an effort in some way or another! Even small things count. For example, a good morning text or letting you pick the movie you watch!

Question 5

Is he embarrassed of you?

Is he proud to call you his girlfriend? For example, has he introduced you as his girlfriend to his friends and family? Does, he want to change his Facebook relationship status? Does, he hold you hand in public? Any man should show how proud of you he is!

Question 6

Does he learn from his mistakes?

No one's perfect. It's inevitable you'll both make mistakes throughout your relationship. However, what counts is whether he repeats those mistakes. For example, if you've pointed out to him he's upset you, he needs to sit up and take responsibility for hurting your feelings and not do it again.

Question 7

Are you afraid to fully commit to him?

If the thought of fully committing to you man fills you with anxiety and dread- you need to take note of this and listen to your gut instinct. There's clearly something wrong here! The sooner you work this out, the better it will be for the both of you in the long run.

Question 8

Do you feel like you're equals in this relationship?

Do you feel like your partner is inferior to you in any way? Perhaps intellectually, financially, cosmetically, etc. You essential that you see yourselves as equals in everything. Otherwise, you'll never treat your man with respect he deserves. This is evidently a major flaw that could break a relationship!

Question 9

Are you holding a grudge?

If you're holding a grudge against something he did days, weeks, months, years ago...then you need to either work through your issues or, call it a day. You'll never sail off into the sunset if you're holding onto resentment caused by a past hiccup in your relationship.

Question 10

Do you play silly mind games?

Mind games are the bane of any modern relationship! For goodness sake, we need to get over ourselves. No, there's nothing wrong with responding to a WhatsApp message straight away. This doesn't make you desperate. You should never be afraid to 'just be' when you're in a relationship. You shouldn't ever have to second-guess your actions where your partners concerned. Playing mind games with your boyfriend is never a good shout.

Question 11

Do you still long for your ex?

There is nothing worse than being used as someone's rebound. It's a horrible feeling. If you're not entirely invested in your relationship and are pining for someone else, you need to end things. It's not fair on your partner, and you'll damage yourself in the process.

Question 12

Do you laugh together?

For most people, laughter is essential in a relationship. You deserve someone makes you laugh. You both need to have a similar sense of humor, or your relationship won't go to the distance. Having inside jokes that are personal to you both is a great way of bringing you closer together!

Question 13

Does he quash your hopes and dreams?

I know this might sound a little overdramatic, but being with a partner who's cynical about everything you want to achieve can be emotionally draining. Sometimes it can leave you utterly exhausted! You want a partner to support you throughout life's journey- not someone who continuously brings you down!

Question 14

Do you get on with his family?

Not everyone will love their partners family, but you have to at least get along with each other for the sake of your man. You need to accept his family for who they are and try and make the best of it! Hopefully, you'll love each other and get on like a house on fire; that's the dynamic most people long for!

Question 15

Do your core values align?

If you are two entirely different people- it's never going to work; it's sadly as simple as that. If your core values are the complete opposite of what he believes, then this will inevitably lead to arguments and heartache further down the line. For example, if one partner wants children and the other doesn't.

Question 16

Have you been happier in another relationship?

If you've been happier in a different relationship, it doesn't mean you necessarily still have feelings for your ex. However, it does mean that you've had a better previous relationship, so the one you're currently in isn't up to scratch. If you have something to compare to, you should always be striving for better.

Question 17

Do you have many common interests?

Ask yourself whether you have any common interests. Are there things that you both enjoy doing together? For example, do you share a mutual love of a particular food? Are you both fitness fanatics? Do you both like a specific genre of film? Etc. Ideally, you should both be happy to try activities the other one is passionate about!

Question 18

How do you feel when you're with him?

You should feel good about yourself when you're spending time with your partner. Your Mr. right should make you feel loved, happy and never take you for granted. You should never feel anxious about meeting up with him; you should look forward to it and enjoy your time together!

Question 19

Do you bring out the best in each other?

When you're in a relationship, you should mutually bring out the best in one another. You should want to be the best version of yourself for your partner and vice-versa. This also includes working together to grow as people in every aspect of your lives, whether that be emotionally, professionally, socially, etc.

Question 20

Have you got through tougher times together?

Have you ever experienced being together when things aren't going swimmingly for the pair of you? For example, things going wrong at work, poor health, the death of a family member, etc. Do you know you'll stick together when things get tough? People react to challenges differently so you need to be confident you can tackle these hurdles as a team.

Question 21

Are you making too many allowances?

Do you put off dealing with substantial red flags within your relationship? Do you also find yourself continually making excuses for your partner because they're always letting you down? If you find yourself doing this, stop making excuses for them. You can and will do better than that! You deserve more.

Question 22

Does he make you cry more than he makes you smile?

If the answer to this is that he makes you cry more than he makes you smile, you know this isn't a healthy relationship. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with passion. However, if he's continually making you miserable, it's safe to say that you're better off without him and his negativity.

Question 23

How do your friends talk about you as a couple?

Do your friends warm to him? Do they say things like they wish they had your relationship? Or, do they try and discreetly give you advice on how to handle him? Do you get the impression they secretly hope you'll find a new fella? Do your friends think you deserve better?

Question 24

Who do you first tell when you've got good news?

Your man should be the first person you want to share your good news with. Sharing and communicating what's going on in your life is so important in a relationship. He should be the one you celebrate with, and naturally, he should be happy things are working out for you.

Question 25

Do you want to change anything about your partner?

If your answer to this question is anything other than no- then you may want to reevaluate your relationship. You should love everything about your partner including their flaws. If their imperfections are too much for you to deal with, then you need to learn to let go of him.

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