Are You A Good New Mom? Take This Test And We'll Tell You
There is no manual or handbook when it comes to motherhood, so being presented with your first child can be a bit intimidating. Becoming a new mother can be extremely daunting to some and everyone can take to it in a different way. A woman's previous experiences with their own parents can be a huge determining factor in how they raise their first child. Yet, environmental factors and temperament also play a huge hand. Each new mother has to walk her own path in figuring out how they want to raise their child and no two mothers are alike.
Yet, every new mother seems to have the same insecurities when it comes to how they're doing as a mom. It's easy to get roped into playing the compare game when it comes to other moms and there will inevitably be days when everything you do seems like it's wrong. To make things exponentially worse is how other women try and make motherhood into some sort of competition, whether it's the expertly executed Pinterest projects or the luxury brand kids' clothes. Test your own mothering choices and see how you fair up as a new mother. While some may be able to feel validated in their choices, others might realize that they need some work.
Have you ever put your child to bed early without it actually being bedtime?
The rigors of the day can be quite stressful for new moms and sometimes there is a mental countdown until bedtime because it seems like the only time when there is some peace and quiet. Have you ever put your child to bed early without it actually being bedtime?
What would be your ideal way to spend Mother’s Day?
For a new mother, Mother's Day seems like an amazing holiday that helps to bring a bit of added joy to the year. Yet, not everyone has the same idea of what constitutes the very best way to spend the day. What would be your ideal way to spend Mother’s Day?
How much do you usually drink?
Oftentimes, motherhood is described as being extremely stressful and Hollywood loves to portray moms by seeing them drinking wine in order to ease their nerves. While there are definitely some mothers that don't partake, not everyone has the same stance on using alcohol to cope. How much do you usually drink?
Do you ever drink during the day?
Alcohol is usually seen as a great way to let loose and unwind after a hard work week but not everyone waits until nighttime. Many women are known to partake in a glass of wine or two when out to lunch. Do you ever drink during the day?
What is your wake-up routine?
For new parents, the morning wakeup routine is different from the days of being single. While some parents wake right up once they hear a child start tossing and turning, others force the kids to stay in bed so they can get some extra sleep. What is your wake-up routine?
What are your thoughts on breastfeeding?
Breastfeeding has been in the headlines in recent years because of all the controversy of women choosing to partake in this natural act in public. While some people think of it as completely natural, some mothers choose not to breastfeed their child. What are your thoughts on breastfeeding?
What age is too early for a child to play with a tablet?
The world of technology has changed drastically in just the last few years and some of the toys that were once relevant in the last generation have become obsolete. Kids are far more interested in electronics, nowadays. What age is too early for a child to play with a tablet?
What is your stance on your child watching television?
Recent studies have shown that exposing children to a prolonged length of time in front of a television can be quite damaging. Yet, not every parent feels the same way about excessive TV use. What is your stance on your child watching television?
How do you feel about bedtime stories?
While learning to read is a crucial aspect of development for a child, not every parent has the same stance on bedtime stories. While some parents never miss a night, others don't seem to make it a priority. How do you feel about bedtime stories?
How do you mostly use your cell phone?
There was a time when people simply didn't have mobile phones, which seems unfathomable by today's standards. Nowadays, people do everything from scroll the Internet to video chat phone calls with their all-in-one Smartphones. How do you mostly use your cell phone?
How would you describe your daily look?
While every woman would love to think that having children won't affect their style routine, it can be truly difficult to find the time to luxuriously apply makeup and style hair when trying to take care of a child. How would you describe your daily look?
What do you think about leashes for children?
An invention that has stirred up an extreme amount of controversy in recent years is the leash products that cater towards young children. Every parent has inevitably had a moment when they've probably wished their child was on a leash. What do you think about leashes for children?
What do you think about parties where parents are instructed not to bring their kids?
After having kids, many parents have to do away with their old partying ways. Yet, there are still dinner parties that can be enjoyed by all, even if kids are brought along. What do you think about parties where parents are instructed not to bring their kids?
How would you describe the level of control you have over your household?
One thing that new parents have to throw out of the window is the fact that every aspect of their lives can't be completely controlled. Kids cause spontaneity and it can sometimes turn into havoc. How would you describe the level of control you have over your household?
How often do you cook from scratch?
While everyone understands that getting takeout can be unhealthy and extremely expensive, not everyone has cooking skills that allow for a daily routine of home-cooked meals. Cooking from scratch can be extremely difficult and takes an abundant amount of time. How often do you cook from scratch?
What are your thoughts on allowing your child to watch scary movies?
People often think of thriller films as a great genre that is perfect for more than just Halloween but watching them at a young age can be truly terrifying for some. What are your thoughts on allowing your child to watch scary movies?
What is your preferred method in disciplining your child?
While everyone hopes that their child will be perfectly disciplined in their behavior, there will inevitably be times when they test their parents' limits. Yet, not every parent agrees on the best way to discipline. What is your preferred method in disciplining your child?
What are your thoughts on giving sweets to your child?
There has been a huge amount of attention on childhood obesity in recent years and people are starting to put some more thought into the eating habits of their children. What are your thoughts on giving sweets to your child?
What are your thoughts on sharing a bed with your child?
There have been a number of celebrities that have spoken out about their tendencies of sharing their bed with their children and it's become a controversial topic. Yet, some people find it a great way to bond with their child. What are your thoughts on sharing a bed with your child?
How would you describe your bathroom routine at your home?
Any new mother can understand the struggle that occurs when trying to use the bathroom in peace after having a child. Everyone seems to have their own method in dealing with this struggle. How would you describe your bathroom routine at your home?
What are your feelings on having your child help with cleaning?
One of the biggest stresses of parenthood has to do with all the messes that will inevitably need to be cleaned up. From millions of snacks to craft projects, it seems like there's always something to clean. What are your feelings on having your child help with cleaning?
How do you feel about giving your child an allowance?
In a world filled with so much materialism, it seems like everyone is obsessed with being the first to get the latest electronic device or latest pair of sneakers. Some parents try and offset this by teaching through allowance. How do you feel about giving your child an allowance?
What do you think is an appropriate gift from the Tooth Fairy?
While some people think of the Tooth Fairy as completely ridiculous, children find it to be truly thrilling to lose a tooth and get a visit from a magical creature that leaves some money. What do you think is an appropriate gift from the Tooth Fairy?
What would be your initial reaction if you walked in to see your child had made a huge mess?
The Internet is filled with videos of homes completely destroyed by some child that somehow got into flour, sprinkles or paint. What would be your initial reaction if you walked in to see your child had made a huge mess?
How would you deal with your child’s pet dying?
One of the biggest grievances about getting a pet is having to deal with explaining the death of that pet to your child. While some people use it as a teachable moment, others aren't that tactful. How would you deal with your child’s pet dying?
What are your feelings on hiring a nanny?
Some people feel that it truly takes a village to raise a child but others like a more hands-on approach and aren't too keen on the idea of someone being brought it as hired help. What are your feelings on hiring a nanny?
What do you think about homemade baby food?
With the world being obsessed with organically-grown food, gluten-free options and going vegan, it shouldn't be surprising that some people make their own baby food. While some people prefer the convenience of premade baby jars at the grocery store, others make their own. What do you think about homemade baby food?
How do you feel about reusable diapers?
Reusable diapers used to be the only option that parents had before disposable diapers emerged. Yet, people have started to revisit reusable diapers because of the organic options, savings, and affect on the environment. How do you feel about reusable diapers?
What do you think about parents that pick favorites with their children?
It's commonly understood that parents should never pick favorites amongst their children but not everyone foregoes it. In fact, shows like Everybody Loves Raymond have shown that it's more common than you might think. What do you think about parents that pick favorites with their children?
Do you curse in front of your child?
While everyone typically agrees that cursing in front of a small child isn't exactly setting the best example, not everyone can choose their words wisely. Not everyone finds it easy to keep it G rated at all times. Do you curse in front of your child?
What do you think about going to the club after becoming a mother?
There are a number of films that have shown mothers cutting lose at a dance club at a particular age and it often ends up with some comical situations. What do you think about going to the club after becoming a mother?
Do you ever answer your kids with sarcasm?
While some people seem to use their sarcasm sparingly, others make it their go-to way to respond. It may be taken appropriately by adults but it can seem a little cold when used with children. Do you ever answer your kids with sarcasm?
How long can you play peek-a-boo with your child?
One game that every parent will inevitably have to play with their child is peek-a-boo. This is something that is actually helpful in development for a child but it can be quite tedious for adults. How long can you play peek-a-boo with your child?
How do you deal with germs around your child?
One thing that all parents have to deal with once they have children is the fact that they'll be exposed to far more germs. Kids are constantly picking things up from the floor, putting things in their mouth and interacting with other kids. How do you deal with germs around your child?
How would you describe the amount of affection you show your child?
Showing a child affection is a huge part of their development and can influence the relationships that they have with future spouses, as well as their own children. How would you describe the amount of affection you show your child?
