If you're reading this, there is a likelihood you are considering revitalizing your relationship with your ex. Dating can be complicated, and when attempting to decide whether you should reconnect with a companion, there are often shades of grey. There is rarely a wrong answer in romances because each path you choose will lead somewhere eventually.
Perhaps you and your partner had communication problems, and as a result, decided to take a break. There are endless reasons for why a relationship could end and seldom is one person to blame. You probably know at least one person who has experienced a dramatic breakup.
Sometimes the best solution is to take time off and distance yourself from your ex. You can avoid thinking about them by staying busy, finding new interests, and pursuing new dates. Dwelling on a past relationship is the worst course of action you could take. Sooner or later, you'll have to decide to get back with your ex or leave your relationship in the past.
Concerning perhaps one of the most consequential decisions you'll make in your dating life, we've created a relationship quiz that will reveal if you should get back with your ex. Good luck!
Do You Think You've Made A Huge Mistake?
There is a chance you ended the relationship prematurely and regretted your decision soon after. It happens quite often where people make rash decisions. A feeling as if you've made an enormous mistake would be an adequate reason to get back with your ex.
Do You Love Your Ex?
Above all else, love is what will save a strained relationship. Through passion and love, a couple can overcome any obstacle. Believe in your relationship and perceive through tough times if you have strong feelings. Do you love your ex?
Have You And Your Ex Broken Up More Than Once?
You may need to find a new mate if you can stay in a relationship with your ex. Couples such as Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez, Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel, and Megan Fox and Brian Austin are among celebrity couples that have had on and off romances. Have you and your ex separated more than once?
Were You Happier With Your Ex?
You shouldn't put your happiness before anything else. Happiness reduces stress and can even prevent illness. You'll want to surround yourself with people who make you happy, and especially in a relationship. Were you happier when you were dating your ex?
Does Your Ex Love You?
You are your own person and are free to exercise judgment. Pursuing an ex-lover could result in shattered emotions if they don't share the same feelings as you. If you are not sure, take a guess! Does your ex love you?
Has Your Ex Met Your Parents?
An ex who has your met your parents was likely a major part of your life at some point. You probably thought highly of them at some point if you introduced them to your parents. Has your ex met your parents?
How Much Time Has Passed Since You Broke Up?
It is not healthy to make spontaneous decisions when dealing with something as meaningful as mending a broken relationship. Take some time to decide if you want to rekindle a past fling. How much time has passed since it happened?
Can You Solve The Problems That Caused You To Break Up In The First Place?
Every relationship has problems, but not all can be solved easily. Sometimes it takes hard work, but also there are problems which will remain forever. Attempt to judge whether your problems can be fixed. Can you solve the issues that arose during your past romance?
Are You Willing To Work Things Out?
Both parties in a relationship have to be willing to make meaningful changes for healing to occur. If both people in a relationship want to ignore previous issues, there is a significant chance those issues will resurface at a later time. Perhaps see a marriage or dating counselor.
Have You Dated Since Breaking Up With Your Ex?
Even though you may feel as if it is the right time to get back together with your ex, you may want to hold off on that. By having a few different relationships, you'll gain a better understanding of what is out there in the dating world. It is recommended to date a few people before getting back with your ex.
Are You Afraid Of Hurting Him/Her Again?
You'll want to prevent yourself from hurting your ex if you get back in a relationship. Although you may feel it is right for you to re-enter into a relationship, it would be wise to consider the feelings of your ex.
Have You Had Many Bad Relationships?
Some people have a long history of being in bad relationships. There is nothing wrong with them, but they may have to work on choosing more suitable partners. You'll know a relationship is wrong when you are not happy with it. Have you had many bad relationships?
Have You Had A Child Together?
Having a child can complicate a breakup. Deciding things like who will take care of the baby is exceedingly tricky. For the sake of a child's happiness and development, you and your ex may want to get back together. Have you and your ex had a child together?
Do You Still Trust Each Other?
Complete trust is essential for healthy functioning of a long-term relationship. Without faith there are lies, and with lies, a romance cannot continue. This is an important question. Do you and your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend still trust each other?
Do You Disagree Often?
Some people are not compatible because they are different people. Although differences can bring couples together, it can also bring them apart. You may want to avoid a partner with whom you frequently argue. Did you use to disagree often?
Are You Still Attracted To Your Ex?
Physical attraction is still a factor in choosing a relationship partner. Although surveys indicate that a person's looks are one of the least important reasons to want a partner, it is still something to consider nonetheless. Are you still attracted to your ex?
Pick A Color!
This is an easy and fun question. Simply choose a color to complete this question. There are no tricks involved in this choice to select a color. The color you select may or may not be your favorite color. Pick a color!
Was Your Ex Ever Abusive?
Abuse in a relationship is not okay under any circumstances. If your ex was abusive, you may as well stop this quiz now because they are probably someone you should avoid. Someone who has mood swings could be an abusive partner. Was your ex ever abusive during your relationship?
Are You Tired Of Being Alone?
There are plenty of ways such as staying busy, getting an education, and being kind to beat loneliness. One who is tired of being alone could overcome loneliness by getting back together with their ex. Are you tired of being alone?
Was Your Separation A Clean One?
Hopefully, you had a clean breakup in which there were no hurt feelings. In a perfect world there would be only clean breakups, but sadly, some can end in arguments with hurt feelings. If you had a clean breakup, getting back together is much easier.
Are You Thinking Rationally?
If you think about your past relationships when you are in a frustrated state of mind, you probably aren't thinking clearly or rationally. Let us know if you've had a clear state of mind when thinking about getting back together with your ex.
How Long Have You Known Your Ex?
Ending a relationship is not always a bad thing. Sometimes couples need a break. One can discover themselves as an individual while on a break. They may also realize how good of a thing they had. How long have you known your ex?
Did You Guys Break Up For A Good Reason?
When time passes, you sometimes forget about why a relationship ended in the first place. Your ex could have been a liar, cheater, or just an overall lousy partner. You should probably stay broken up if you had a good reason in the first place.
Is Someone Willing To Apologize?
For you and your ex to get back together, someone in the relationship needs to be willing to apologize. For the sake of moving on you can fake an apology. If no apologies are necessary, then getting back together is even more comfortable. Is someone willing to apologize?
Have You Changed As A Person Since Breaking Up With Your Ex?
As time passes, you'll have new experiences that shape the person you are. If you have changed as a person since your breakup, you may have gained a new perspective on your relationship and realize what went wrong. Have you changed since your relationship ended?