Plan A Wedding And We'll Reveal The Groom's Sign!
- by Laura Martisiute
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When most people find "the one" they are quick to get married. And while some couples decide to simply go down to the Registry Office and call it a day, most couples want to celebrate the very special occasion in what they deem to be a proper manner.
As such, most couples will put a lot of thought into their wedding, making sure that they pick the perfect season, the perfect time of the day and of course, the perfect venue, not to mention the perfect outfits, food and cake.
While planning a wedding may seem easy in theory, in reality it is rather complicated and stressful. In fact, the planning process often results in quite a few arguments between the bride and the groom. After all, the bride and the groom might have conflicting opinions - whether regarding the flavor of the wedding cake or the number of guests that should be invited - but more often than not, compromises are reached and everyone is left satisfied. A wedding ceremony should be a source of happiness, not a source of conflict.
Some may say that one easy way to avoid conflict is to choose a partner that is right for someone based on astrology. For example, it is said that Libras don't get along with Capricorns and that Tauruses don't get along with Leos but that those born under the sign of Aries get along just fine with those born under the sign of Sagittarius. Avoid any future conflict by finding out the sign of your future groom!
Pick an engagement ring.
A marriage proposal is more often than not accompanied by an engagement ring. This ring is then worn as a symbol that the couple is to get married in the near future and in fact serves as a type of formal agreement.
Pick the perfect season.
Choosing the perfect season to get married in is an important part of wedding planning. For example, some couples might want to get married in summer whereas others might think that there is nothing more romantic than getting married during a snowstorm.
Pick the ideal time of day for the ceremony.
Some couples can’t wait to get married and as such choose to have their wedding ceremony in the morning. Others know that it will take them quite a while to get ready for their big day and as such they decide to hold their wedding ceremony later in the day.
How many guests will be invited?
Those that want a quiet and private wedding will invite only a few guests, perhaps just family members and the closest of friends. Those who want a big celebration will invite as many people as they possibly can, even friends and acquaintances that they haven't seen in years.
Pick the invitations.
While every couple will notify their family and friends that they are getting married through word of mouth, it is a customary practice to also send out wedding invitations to potential guests. More often than not the invites reflect the overall theme of the upcoming wedding.
Choose the venue.
Choosing a wedding venue can be tricky, if only because there are so many potential options out there. However, most couples are well able to sift through all the options available to find their ideal venue. So, which one of the below four venues sounds perfect?
Choose the theme.
While choosing a wedding theme is not at all mandatory, most couples decide to go for one anyways. After all, having a wedding theme can seriously aid with the overall planning process and can help pull the whole wedding together.
Choose the color scheme.
Not every wedding couple will decide to go with a main wedding color, but just like a wedding theme, a main wedding color can also be very helpful. It often helps pull the whole wedding together and it ensures that everything looks as aesthetically pleasing as possible.
Choose the dress.
One of the biggest and sometimes most stressful tasks that a bride has to cross off her list before the big day is finding the perfect wedding dress. While some brides opt to go down the traditional route and go for a white dress, others like to do things a bit differently and choose dresses – or even suits – that are somewhat unconventional.
Choose the shoes.
Once the ideal wedding dress is found, there comes the task of finding the perfect shoes to go with it. The type of shoes that a bride will go for will totally depend on her personality. Some brides for example might go for heels, others might go for flats and still others might decide on sneakers.
Choose the hairstyle.
Once the bridal outfit is completed – the perfect dress and shoes are found – it is then time to look at the hairstyle that the bride might want to wear on her big day. Oftentimes, the type of hairstyle that a bride opts for is determined by the style of her bridal outfit.
Veil or no veil?
The tradition of brides wearing a wedding veil has been around for centuries and it is said that veils symbolize the bride’s sacredness. Today, many traditional brides choose to wear a wedding veil on their big day. However, brides that have a more modern outlook on the ceremony often choose to forego the veil seeing it as an outdated tradition.
Any hair accessories?
When brides thinks of wedding day hair accessories they without doubt think of wedding veils. But veils are not the only hair accessory suitable for the big day. There are plenty of other hair accessories that can enhance the bride’s hair-do.
What about the makeup?
While some brides opt to forego makeup completely on their big day, most brides like to plan their makeup look in advance. Some brides will go for a completely natural look, others might opt for a romantic look and still others might go for something very glamorous.
Choose the manicure.
A bride’s nails might not be the most visible thing on her big day – everyone will be preoccupied with the dress of course – but that doesn’t mean that they should be neglected. Indeed, a nice manicure will serve to complete the overall look.
Choose the bouquet.
No bridal outfit is complete without a flower bouquet. But choosing the perfect bouquet is no easy task purely because there are so many bouquet options available. Besides, one has to ensure that the bouquet matches not only the bridal dress but also the overall theme of the wedding.
Choose the bridesmaids dresses.
Some brides like to plan every little detail in advance which means that things like bridesmaids dresses will not be left to chance. Indeed, the bride will either specify the kind of dresses that the bridesmaids should acquire or will provide the dresses herself. On the other hand, some brides are more relaxed and don’t really care what the bridesmaids will wear.
Choose the groom's outfit.
The bride might be the focal point of the wedding ceremony but the groom is important too. As such, it is necessary that the groom wears a fitting outfit which not only complements the bride’s dress but also fits into the overall theme of the wedding.
See the groom before the wedding?
Some brides and grooms believe that it is bad to luck to see one another before the wedding. Similarly, others think that not seeing one other before the ceremony adds to the anticipation and excitement. On the other hand, some brides and grooms opt to see each other before the ceremony because it helps them calm their nerves and makes them feel more at ease.
Walk down the aisle alone or with someone else?
While once upon a time it was almost unimaginable that a bride would walk down the aisle on her own nowadays this happens more and more often. Still, while some brides think that walking down the aisle with their dad or even both parents is an outdated concept, others like it and can't even imagine walking down the aisle on their own.
Yes or no to a flower girl?
Flower girls are usually related to either the bride or the groom. They walk down the aisle before the bride, scattering flower petals in her wake. It is believed that the flower girl symbolizes the bride's youth and innocence and leads her into adulthood and into her role as a wife and a mother.
Choose the ring bearer.
A ring bearer is usually a young boy – more often than not a relative of either the bride or the groom – who brings the wedding rings to the couple during the wedding ceremony. However, it is not necessary to have a ring bearer as part of your wedding and in some cases, couples might opt for non-traditional ring bearers, such as pets!
Choose the rings.
During the wedding ceremony the bride and the groom exchange wedding rings which later indicate to others that they are married. These rings are more often than not simple bands made from gold or other precious metals but of course that doesn’t mean that the rings can’t showcase the couple’s personality.
Yes or no to a bouquet throw?
A bouquet throw is a popular part of a wedding ceremony and has been popular for centuries. It is said that the woman who catches the bouquet will be next to get married. Today this tradition is still practiced. However some brides believe that it is totally outdated and as such opt to forego it.
Choose the music.
No wedding celebration would be complete without music. After all, no one wants to dine and chat in total silence so some music – if only for ambiance – is absolutely necessary. Of course, the type of music – live or prerecorded for example – that is chosen depends on the preferences of the wedding couple.
Will there be a professional photographer?
Since your wedding day is a pretty important day (and according to some, the most important day in your life), many couples hire a professional photographer to capture it. Others on the other hand think that a friend with a camera is more than enough.
Choose the wedding cake.
A wedding cake is an important part of any wedding ceremony and is basically the dessert that is served to guests after dinner. While most couples opt for elegant or traditional wedding cakes, others go for cakes that are quirky and unusual (Harry Potter or Star Wars inspired, for example).
Choose the flavor of the wedding cake.
Most wedding cakes look absolutely amazing but it is important to choose a cake not only based on its appearance but also on the way that it tastes. As such, most wedding couples go to a few wedding cake tastings before they decide on the cake that will be served on their big day.
How many tiers will the cake have?
Most wedding cakes are made from more than one tier which makes them look pretty spectacular. Indeed, some guests – or even the wedding couple itself - might even find the thought of eating the sweet masterpiece almost sacrilegious. So, how many tiers should the ideal wedding cake have?
Any other desserts?
Just because a wedding cake is served during the wedding reception that does not mean that there can’t be any other sweet desserts offered. In fact, most couples choose to give their guests an option when it comes to sweet treats.
Choose the canapes.
Canapes are small decorative foods that are usually served with drinks or before dinner. They are small and easy to eat and most people absolutely love them. As such, most couples ensure that they have quite a selection of canapés on offer on their special day.
Choose the main meal.
While some wedding couples only serve their guests drinks and canapés, most couples also feed their guests a proper meal. There are countless of dinner options available so it can be quite a headache to pick out one meal that will suit everyone.
Choose the wedding favors.
It is common practice to give wedding guests favors during the wedding ceremony or during the wedding reception. Wedding favors have been around for quite some time and are a lovely way to say thank you to your guests for coming to the ceremony.
Choose the transport method.
Once the wedding reception is over, the newlywed couple takes off as the crowd cheers on. The type of transport that the newlywed couple opts for depends totally on their own preference and just how traditional or modern they are.
Choose the honeymoon destination.
After the wedding ceremony is over the wedding couple takes off on their honeymoon. Honeymoons are great for they allow the newlywed couple to spend some time alone and to really get to know one another or simply to relax after their big day (which, no matter how fun, is always a little stressful).
