Plan A Wedding And We'll Reveal If It's Tacky Or Tasteful
- by Erica Blair
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We all know that we've dreamt about our big, beautiful wedding for years! From the star-studded weddings of the big screen to the adorable small destination weddings that simply take our breath away, there is just something about weddings that inspires us to think about far-away places, gorgeous dresses and of course- romance!
It doesn't matter if the wedding of our dreams is a huge occasion with tons of gorgeous flowers, ten bridesmaids and a white pony to whisk us away off into the sunset or a private beachside ceremony that is just the perfect way for us to tie the knot with our soulmate- each wedding is priceless and unique in its own way! We know that everyone has the ideal wedding in mind, so now it's time to plan it out bit by bit and find out whether it is tacky or tasteful!
We've compiled a list of the most important fifty questions that anyone needs to answer in order to plan and execute the perfect wedding. Each one is a matter of taste- but the results will reveal whether the wedding that you've been dreaming about is beautifully tasteful, or a little bit on the tacky side!
Tell us about the "wedding planning binder"
All of the smartest brides know that a ton of planning has to go into creating the perfect wedding, which is why some of them opt for a “wedding planning binder”- a place to put all of the most important details of the big day. Tell us all about yours!
Tell us about the budget planning
Next up is the budget. We all want the most lavish wedding possible- after all, it is the biggest day in your life, right? Even so, it is important to stick to a reasonable budget and plan ahead for all sorts of little and big expenses. What’s your budget planning style?
Who would hire a wedding planner?
Sometimes it is best to trust the professionals, especially if we’re talking about an event as big and important as a wedding! There are two schools of thought on this- brides who want to do everything themselves and those who decide that a wedding planner is the way to go.
Tell us about the guest list
Now we get to the really important stuff- the guest list! Of course, everyone wants all of their nearest and dearest friends and family to be there on their big day, but is that really feasible? What does the ideal wedding guest list look like? Tell us your thoughts below.
How are the wedding guests chosen?
Even though we might want to invite everyone under the sun to participate in our big day, sometimes we have to work with a more pared down version of the guest list. We know, it is not fair, but sometimes sacrifices have to be made! How are the guests chosen?
How big is the list?
Here’s another question about the wedding list that comes down to each bride’s unique style. Some of us love a big wedding with tons of guests, and others prefer a smaller ceremony with only a handful of people present. Remember, there are no wrong answers here! Choose one option below.
Tell us how the wedding party would be chosen
Let’s move on to the wedding party- you know the besties who will stand up for us on the big day. Of course, it is a huge honor to be selected to be part of the bride’s group on the day of the wedding. How do we choose who gets that distinction?
How far in advance is the wedding party chosen?
Some brides like to choose their wedding party the second that the engagement ring is on their finger. Others prefer to wait a little bit and think about it for a while. Different styles are amazing- so we invite everyone to choose the best option for them. Choose one below.
How big is the wedding party?
Here’s one that comes down to totally personal taste! There are so many different ways to have the wedding of our dreams- and whether the bridal party is huge or really small is just one of those ways! Each bride is different, so check out the options below and choose the best one.
What color/s will your bridesmaids be wearing?
Of course, you want your girls looking their very best on the big day. The color or colors chosen should reflect the bride’s personal preferences and also the overall theme of the wedding itself. Whether they are wearing a flash of bright color or subdued neutrals is totally up to you.
Tell us about the ideal dress
Now we come to one of the most important questions- the bride’s dress. We all know that all eyes are on the bride on her big day, so the dress should be something that stands out and is remembered for years to come. Which dress below sounds the most ideal?
Pick something blue to wear
There’s an old saying that the bride should wear something blue on her wedding day, and we think it’s totally a great tradition! Blue is a tranquil and beautiful color, so a pop of this particular hue can do wonders for the bride’s overall look. Choose something lovely and blue below.
Pick an heirloom to wear
Just like the tradition of putting on a little something blue, the idea of wearing a cherished heirloom is one that many brides love! Whether it is a gorgeous statement necklace, like in the picture above, or another trinket that has been passed down for generations, this tradition is a winner.
Pick a favorite makeup style
All eyes will be on the bride’s dress… unless they are looking at her face. On the big day we all want to look our best and that means putting a little bit more effort into our makeup! There are plenty of ways to shine, but the specifics are a matter of personal preference.
Choose a chic hairstyle
Whether the bride decides to wear a veil or not- her hair still needs to be on point. The hair should perfectly compliment the dress and her makeup, as well as reflect her personal style! Our hairstyles are one of the biggest things that define our overall look, so choose carefully!
Tell us about the bride's bouquet
Whether the bride decides to wear a veil or not- her hair still needs to be on point. The hair should perfectly compliment the dress and her makeup, as well as reflect her personal style! Our hairstyles are one of the biggest things that define our overall look, so choose carefully!
Choose some special shoes
Just because the dress can be long doesn’t mean that the shoes don’t need to be on point! Our wedding is the most important day in the world, so let’s make sure that we have the proper footwear to go along with our spectacular and stunning look! Choose one below.
Choose a place to register the wedding
When we’re starting out a new life with our soulmate, we might need a few little odds and ends to complete the happy home. This is where the wedding registry comes in! Guests can choose between items on the bride and groom’s wish list. Choose the best place to register.
Tell us about the invitations
Of course, in order to have the wedding of our dreams we need to tell people about it! Invitations say a lot about what we can expect from the wedding itself- and also about the bride and groom! Think about the first impression your wedding will make and select below.
Want a professional photographer?
Every bride will want her big day documented, so hiring a professional photographer is a step that many take to ensure that the pictures will be memorable, beautiful and expertly shot! After all, we will be looking at them for many years to come! Who wants a professional photographer? Choose below.
Want a professional videographer?
Let’s go just one step further, shall we? Some people prefer not only to have a professional photographer- but also to capture the moving pictures as well. Of courses, we’re talking about a videographer who can expertly film the first dance, cake cutting and other highlights of the ceremony and reception.
Tell us about the engagement party
Getting engaged is the first step towards a happy future together! It is only natural that we want to celebrate it with a big, wonderful party full of our friends and family. Formal or informal- it is up to the bride and groom. Who wants to throw a party to celebrate their engagement?
Who wants their own wedding website?
One of the perks of living in the digital age is being able to create a website in a matter of minutes! It is so easy to compile a list of wedding-related activities and functions and put them up on the internet under a specific domain. Who wants to get techy?
Where will the out of town guests stay?
Depending on the size of your dream wedding there may be out of town guests who want to attend the ceremony and reception. It’s a good idea to figure out where these guests will be staying- especially since the bride is most likely a local! Choose the best option below.
How will the wedding party get to the ceremony?
Let’s get into the details of the day. Before you can say “I Do” and get whisked away with your soulmate, there needs to be an actual ceremony- and that means that the wedding party will have to get there somehow. Choose the best method of transportation for the wedding party.
Where will the rehearsal dinner be?
Generally, weddings are preceded by a rehearsal. It’s a good way to make sure that everyone knows what they’re doing and is able to help the big day go off without a hitch! Usually, the bride and groom throw a dinner after the rehearsal. Where will that special dinner be?
What will be served at the rehearsal dinner?
Who’s hungry? After all of that wedding planning and rehearsing, your wedding party probably wants to chow down on some really good food. Fortunately, rehearsal dinners are famous for having some really tasty dishes. It’s a way to show the wedding party some appreciation for all of their hard work. What will you serve?
What season will the wedding be held in?
This is one of the most important questions because the wedding season dictates a lot of how the actual day will go. Summer weddings have a certain appeal to them- but winter weddings are cozy and beautiful. Which season sounds the best to you? Choose one option from the four below.
When is the venue reserved?
When it comes to weddings, sometimes the early bird gets the worm-- or at least, the wedding venue of their dreams! Some brides prefer to reserve the venue way in advance, while others wait until almost the last second. There is no wrong answer here, so choose the one that sounds the best.
Tell us the feel of the reception venue
Just like all weddings are different, all venues are different too! Each one is a perfect reflection of the bride and her fairytale wedding! There are large venues, small venues, rustic ones and very elegant spaces for the most sophisticated types of weddings. It is purely a matter of taste.
Who officiates?
Before the cake is cut and the couple has their first dance, it is time to say “I Do”. That means that someone must be there to help the happy couple through their important vows. There are plenty of choices when it comes to officiants, so choose the best one.
Who wants to write their own vows?
Couples writing their own vows is pretty popular these days. Most people want to proclaim their love in their own words! There are some who really want to go with the traditional way of getting married and others who prefer to put their own personal spin on things. Where do you fall?
Tell us about the rings
When we get married the rings are one of the most important ways that we express our love! They are a personal reflection of the commitment between two people- and will be cherished forever. What kind of rings are best? It’s a personal choice- so select the best option below.
Will the reception be held indoors or outdoors?
Let’s talk about the reception! For most people it is the most fun part of the wedding. It’s the time when the bride and groom get to celebrate with their friends and family. Receptions come in all shapes and sizes- and can be held indoors or outdoors. Pick your fave below.
Any special furry companions at the wedding?
We all know that pets are a bit part of the family, so why not include them in the wedding? Many people like to incorporate their furry friends into their ceremonies and receptions. Whether it is dogs, cats or any other type of animal companion, many brides say the more animals the better!
What color will the flower girl be wearing?
In addition to our favorite furry friends, many brides like to have a special spot for those who are a little too young to be officially part of the wedding party. We’re talking, of course, about flower girls and ring bearers! What color will the adorable children be dressed in?
Tell us about the decorations
Although all eyes will be on the bride most of the time (and rightfully so!) there are plenty of other places to look as well, so the ceremony and reception area need to be decorated and looking their best. What kind of decorations sound most delightful? Choose one option below.
What kind of flowers will decorate the tables?
There are decorations… and then there are table decorations. The places where your guests will be sitting deserve a little love of their own, and generally that comes in the form of beautiful bouquets of flowers. The types of blooms you choose are totally up to you. Pick some below.
Tell us about the party favors
There should be something set aside for your honored guests as they attend your reception. Most brides and grooms like to lay out little party favors for people to take home. These favors can come in all shapes and sizes, but are generally something small that reminds the guest of the happy couple.
What kind of food will the guests be served?
We all know that one of the best parts of any wedding reception is the food! Generally the bride and groom go all out to make sure that the night is one to be remembered. Guests can anticipate all sorts of delicious dishes, including salmon, chicken, beef or veggie lasagna!
Will there be appetizers?
Right after the couple says “I Do” there’s generally a period of time when the bride and groom get their pictures taken. During that time the guests are free to mingle, and sometimes indulge in a few appetizers to tide them over until dinner. Will there be appetizers at your dream wedding?
Buffet or sit-down meal?
There are generally two types of meals available at weddings- buffets and sit-down meals. Each comes with its own set of pros and cons, so the choice of which is better is totally up to the bride and groom! Regardless of what choice you go with, your guests are guaranteed to have a great time.
Will there be a special dessert station?
We all know that the wedding cake is the star of the dessert show, but sometimes couples like to have a little something else for their guests to get their sweet tooth fix on. Dessert and coffee stations are becoming more and more popular at weddings these days. What do you think?
What does the wedding cake look like?
Let’s get to the main star of the show- the wedding cake! Wedding cakes come in all shapes and sizes, but the most delicious are the ones that the bride and groom have picked together. Each wedding cake is unique, so simply pick the one that sounds most decadent and delicious.
Will there be any special ceremonies?
At the reception there is bound to be tons of dancing, fun and lots of toasts. Sometimes there’s also special ceremonies that the bride and groom partake in, like a garter toss, bouquet toss or fun kinds of dances. Check out the ceremonies listed below. Do any of them belong in your wedding?
Tell us about the band
Speaking of music, let’s talk about the kind of band that you’ll have at your wedding reception. Some people go all out with a full band, and others opt for a DJ or a simple three-piece band that plays traditional music. The choice is totally up to you, so pick the best option below.
Will they perform any “special songs”?
Many couples have at least one or two songs that they really want played at their wedding. Whether the songs have sentimental value, or are just really fun- these are songs that are on the “must play” list for the band or DJ. Choose a selection below that best fits your dream wedding.
What is the first dance?
Speaking of music, every couple has a first dance that they’ll cherish forever. Whether it’s the song that was playing the day the two of you met, the first song that reminded you of each other, or just one that really cements your unique love- there is that one tune that stands out.
Who will give the wedding toast?
Let’s talk about the role of the cherished wedding party! No doubt it is full of people who are near and dear to the bride and groom- and chances are, they have some really good stories to tell. Wedding toasts are a staple of most weddings. Tell us about yours.
Tell us about the ideal honeymoon
Finally, let’s end on a sweet note for both the bride and groom. We’re of course talking about the honeymoon! Honeymoons are those special occasions where the bride and groom can get together and really enjoy each other’s company somewhere in paradise. Describe the most ideal honeymoon from the options below.
