Is Your BFF Secretly Into You? Take The Quiz!

Do you have a best friend that you think is totally into you? Maybe you grew up together and after all those years it grew into love, or maybe it didn’t? Maybe you are reading the signs all wrong, but maybe you aren’t either. Did you ever wonder if this person of the opposite gender only hangs out with you because they are into you or if they truly want to just be around you? You don’t wan to ruin this friendship that you’ve had for such a long time, right? So how do you go about learning if this person is into you or not?

Perhaps they are pretty good at hiding their feelings for you and they have been for quite a long time. It can be hard to distinguish if a best friend is into you because you have such a close bond to begin with. The signs that you see as flirtation could just be them having a good time with their best friend. So what do you do? Take our quiz to figure out if your best friend is actually into you and not just hanging out with you because they're your best friend. The answers may surprise you.

Question 1

How does your BFF answer his or her text from you?

How does your best friend respond when you send them a text message? The initial response of a text message could read a lot between the lines when you really think about it. Do they respond with a flirty double "y" heyy. How about a winky face behind their hi? What about the fun double hi hi? Lastly, what if they respond with a simple hey there?

Question 2

Where does he or she sit when you are chilling on the couch?

When you both sit on the couch where does your best friend normally sit? Non-verbal language say a lot about the feelings that are bubbling up inside of a person. Do they sit next to you to a point that they are actually touching you? Do they sit next to you but not super close? Do they take your usual spot knowingly? Or do they sit across from you?

Question 3

What do your other friends say about your BFF?

The opinions of your friends are pretty important when you are looking for the true story of a situation. What are they saying about your best buddy? Are they saying that they are like a sibling to you or that the two of you of you are way too close for comfort? Maybe they are saying that they are really touchy feely to you or that they are really good to you as a friend.

Question 4

Would you say the two of you do everything together?

Would you say that you and your best friend do everything together or not so much? Put it this way, if you are spending every waking minute together, it could show that you are pretty into each other. Do you absolutely do everything together or not really? Is it uncomfortable that you totally do everything together, or do you do everything together because that's just the way it's always been?

Question 5

What are your parents' thoughts on your BFF?

What do your parents think of your best friend? A lot of times your parents are a good source of judgement on these types of things too. Do they look awkwardly at them because they think they are scoping on you? Do they treat them like another one of their kids? Do they see that something more is there? Or do they have their own relationship with them when you aren't even around?

Question 6

How does your pet react to your best friend?

How does your pet react when your best friend is at your place? Your pets are pretty intuitive and can sense when something is going on. Does your pet act kind of weird around them or do they not get really hot or cold either way? Does he not get too close to him or her or does he treat him or her just like he treats you?

Question 7

When another friend comes along on one of your adventures, how does your BFF react?

When you have a tagalong on one of your adventures, how does your best friend react? This is one of those signs that could tell you a lot about how they truly feel. Do they get angry if there is a third wheel tagging along with you? Do they get super awkward if someone else is joining the group? Do they not care either way and not act different, or are they pretty cool with the situation?

Question 8

How do you feel when you go to the movies together?

The movies are a great date location, so going with someone who is into you might not be the best idea if you aren't into them. how do you feel when you go to the movies with your best friend? Do you not like going at all or do you have a great time every time you go? Do you feel awkward when you are with them or do you just feel cool?

Question 9

How do their friends react when you show up?

How do his or her friends act when you walk up to them? Truth be told, if he or she is into you, their friends definitely know about it, it's like you are the odd man out in this situation. Do they instantly scatter when you come walking up or do they include you in the group? Do they act all awkward and weird or do they stick around and hangout a while?

Question 10

Has your best friend ever asked you on a date like situation?

Does your best friend ever ask you out to date like situations? I'm talking nice dinners, or things that are pretty couply. Think about it. Have they ever done a dinner and a movie situation that went beyond fast food or do they just do the grab and go thing with you? Do they always try to get you out to nice places or are you guys just not like that?

Question 11

Does he or she dress up when they see you?

Whenever you both are together, does your best friend always seem to be totally dressed up for the occasion or are they dressed totally casually? Do they always seem to dress up because it's their thing or do they only really seem to dress up for you? Take notice if they dress up for you because it could mean they are trying to get your attention.

Question 12

Do you have a lot of inside jokes?

It isn't uncommon for best friends to have some inside jokes because they spend so much time together. Do you and you best friend have a bunch of inside jokes? Does your best friend tend to force a bunch of inside jokes on your or do you guys have a bunch together naturally? Do you not have a bunch or inside jokes, or does your best friend seem to remember them all the time?

Question 13

What's their relationship status?

What is the relationship status of your best friend? Sometimes this is also pretty telling when you put the pieces together. Do they always seem to be single all of the time? Do they never seem to have a serious relationship? Do you think they are going to marry the person they are with right now? Or are they totally taken and happy about it?

Question 14

When they are around you, does it feel like they are always trying to make a move?

When your best friend is hanging out with you, does it feel like they are always trying to make a move or not really? Is it a definite yes, like you feel like they have an ulterior motive or no like there is no other agenda going on inside of their head? Do they always come across like they have something to say but they never say it or do they just respect your boundaries?

Question 15

When you date someone, how do they react?

When you are dating someone new, how does your best friend seem to react to it? If they really are in love with you, this could be a really hard situation for them to swallow. Do they get super angry and ignore you, or do they get super awkward around you and your new date? Do they act the same that they always do or do they act cooler to include the new person?

Question 16

If other people thought you were together, how would they react?

If someone else thought that you both were together, how do you think your best friend would react? Would they be super stoked and play it up? Would they get super embarrassed and turn bright red about it? Would they find it kind of weird then laugh it off, or would they think it was all around funny? Their reaction says a lot here.

Question 17

How often do they talk about other girls/guys around you?

How often does your best friend talk about other girls/guys when you are around? If you guys aren't an item this wouldn't be a big deal at all. Do they bring it up all the time like it isn't a huge deal, do they bring it up pretty often like a normal topic of conversation, do they bring it up pretty rarely because it is an uncomfortable topic, or do they just never bring it up?

Question 18

Do they talk to you the same way they talk to their other friends?

When your best friend talks to you versus their friends, do they talk to you pretty much the same way they talk to their friends? Do they seem kind of nervous around you, or are they pretty casual with you? DO they seem kind of flirty with you or are you pretty much one and the same with all of their buddies? It could mean a lot when it comes to their feelings.

Question 19

If you made a move, how would they react?

If you would make a move on your best friend, how would they react to it? This would be a great test to see if he or she is truly into you or not. Would they be really excited that you "finally" made a move on them, or would they be totally grossed out by it? Would they be relieved by the fact that you made a move, or would they be completely baffled?

Question 20

Do they ever joke about how you'd be a great couple?

Does your best friend ever make "jokes" about how you would be such a great couple? This could be a passive aggressive way that they are showing you that they really want to be with you. Do they literally do it all of the time? Do they do it on occasion? Do you shutter to think about them doing that, or have they made that joke very rarely?

Question 21

How long have you known him or her?

How long have you know your best friend? Sometimes the amount of time you have known your friend can determine how much this person likes you. Let's face it, the longer they stick around usually means that they just like you for you rather than sticking it out for a flame—they would be a heck of a lot of waiting around.

Question 22

How well do they know you?

How well would you say you best friend knows you? Would you say that your best friend knows you inside and out? Would you say that they only know your surface level details that you tell all of your friends? Would you say that they really don't know all that much at all? Or would you say they know way too much about you?

Question 23

How often do you talk?

How often would you say you and your best friend exchange words? Would you say you are talking every waking moment of every single day? How about every day in general? Would you say you and your best friend are talking at least every hour of every day? Or would you say you both talk every other day or so?

Question 24

Have you ever thought of the both of you together?

Have you ever sat down and thought about the two of you being together? Maybe he or she put the thought in your head and you couldn't help but contemplate it. Have you flat out thought about it before? Have you only thought about it a real little bit? Is it completely gross to you to think about, or have you not at all?

Question 25

Do you think he or she is into you?

Most importantly, what is your gut feeling about your best friend's feelings about you? Only you know best about these types of things, and usually your gut holds the right answer. Do you absolutely think they like you or do you absolutely think they don't like you? Do you get a strange feeling about it or are you pretty sure that you don't think so?

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