Take This Quiz To Find Out If He's The One
- by Jessie Dax-Setkus
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- in Lifestyle
Life is full of choices, and that includes the relationships we involve ourselves in. When we meet a guy they fall into one of two categories—Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now. Both have their pros and cons, but if you are looking towards the long-term Mr. Right Now isn’t the guy you are looking for. Mr. Right is that guy that will stick by your side and will make you feel good when you need it most, where Mr. Right now will be there for that late night booty call and that’s about it. It depends on what you are looking for, but Mr. Right Now can get pretty old pretty fast.
Sometimes you could want Mr. Right Now to become Mr. Right, but it just isn’t likely. There are signs that these guys show you that tells you which type of guy they are or want to be, but it is your job to key into them. Which guy are you looking for, and which guy do you think you have? Take our quiz and figure out if you have Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now. Some of the questions are pretty introspective, so be prepared for some honest answers!
How do you respond when he texts you?
How do you respond when he texts you? You might be really excited when he texts, but you also might be really annoyed when he texts. it just depends on that bond that the two of you have. If you guys are really close, you will probably be exited that he's thinking of you, but vice versa if you aren't so tight.
What do you do after you fight?
What do you do after you fight? Fights are never fun whether you are in a meaningful relationship or not. No one wants to be fighting. After you are all done, what do you do? Do you apologize and just get it over with so you can just move on, or do you talk it out so you can actually solve the problem?
Do you ever talk about the future?
Do you ever talk about the future? It's a big deal to talk about the future. Whether it's living together or getting married, there is a lot to discuss. If you aren't talking it out at all then you have to wonder what your relationship really is. Are you wasting your time with this guy?
Has he seen you without makeup?
Has he seen you without makeup? This is important because you are showing him a part of you that you wouldn't show just anyone. If you feel comfortable with him then you are showing him what you look like without makeup. If you don't feel comfortable, you aren't taking that makeup off.
Are you comfortable leaving him alone with your friends?
Are you comfortable at leaving him alone with your friends? Can he keep a conversation going with your friends without looking disinterested or not really? If he's not super interested in the long-term he might not be super interested in your friends either because why get close to them if he won't be sticking around?
Do you go on vacations with him?
Do you go on vacations with him? Going on vacation shows that you have taken that next little step together in your relationship. Taking the time to put each other first and go on a trip together is a nice way to really bond. If you aren't doing that then you really haven't taken the step to bond together.
Does he help you when you're sick?
Does he help you when you're sick? Does he make you chicken soup and watch your favorite movies with you, or does he pretty much stay away making excuses that he doesn't want to get sick? If he really loves you, he will stick by your side through thick and thin. If he's just hanging out with you, he won't be.
Has he met your family?
Has he met your family? It's a really big deal for him to meet your family. When he meets them, you have let him into a personal part of your life that not many people get to see. If he hasn't met them, then you have to think if you actually want them to meet at all. Is he worthy of meeting your parents or not really?
Does he like your parents?
Does he like your parents? If he is rude to them you have to wonder how much respect he has towards you to begin with. If he really loves you, he would be respectful and kind to your parents because he knows how important they are to you. As he should be, there is no reason for him to create drama.
Do your families get along?
Do your families get along? If they don't get along they might see that you two aren't right for each other to begin with. Your parents and his parents might also realize that there is no connection between the two of you, so they might butt heads with the other side. it's not a good position to be in.
Do you feel like you could be with him forever?
Do you feel like you could be with him forever? This is a question you really have to look at introspectively. If you don't feel like you could be with him, then why are you with him to begin with? You could find someone that could be making you really happy rather than wasting your time on someone that isn't.
Does he cancel plans often?
Does he cancel plans often? If he is canceling date night to watch the big game with his friends, you have to wonder if he is in the relationship for the right reasons. It makes you feel bad when he is constantly leaving you on the side lines, and it really isn't fair when you have to be the one waiting around.
Do you cancel plans?
Do you cancel plans? If you find yourself canceling plans, then you clearly aren't that interested in this guy. If you are really into him then you want to spend as much time as humanly possible with him rather than backing out on date night for girls' night. You really have to think if this guy is the right guy for you.
Would you say he's hot or handsome?
Would you say he's hot or handsome? If he's hot you might be in this relationship for the bedroom action rather than the intimacy. Sure, that could make you feel good for the moment, but it doesn't give you the long-term results you might be looking for. You just need to think about what you're looking for.
Did he buy you presents on your birthday?
Did he buy you presents on your birthday? If he's not buying you presents on your birthday, then he doesn't see you as anything serious. If he's spoiling you then he obviously cares about you enough to go out of his way for you. It might make you feel sad if you don't get though of on your birthday, do you want that?
Does he ask you what's wrong when you're sad?
Does he ask you what's wrong when you're sad? If he wants to know what the problem is when you are upset, you should consider yourself luck because he wants to help you. It feels good to have a guy that wants to help you out when you are down rather than having someone that doesn't really care.
How long do you guys talk on the phone?
How long do you guys talk on the phone? Do you have a lot to talk about or do you just talk about the critical details like where you are meeting or what time you are going to see each other? You don't have to talk every day, but having a bonding conversation is nice to have from time to time.
Does he flirt with other women?
Does he flirt with other women? If he does, he obviously doesn't see the two of you as exclusive. If you are looking for someone that is in it for the long haul, this guy might not be the one you are looking for. You don't want to be in competition with other women for his attention, right? That's not cool.
Does he come over to your house?
Does he come over to your house? If you aren't willing to bring him over to your house you really have to wonder why you don't want him to come over. Obviously, you don't feel that close to him, so you don't want him to come into your personal space. That's fine, but why do you keep hanging with him?
Do you live together?
Do you live together? If you live together you obviously think that your relationship is pretty serious and you have considered taking some major steps forward together. Not to say that you can't live separately and still make it work, but you are pretty darn serious if you are sharing a roof together.
Does he help you do chores?
Does he help you do chores? If he helps you out with your household chores, he is a real keeper. He clearly cares about you and wants to help you with your day to day life. If he doesn't help and just watches you do chores then he obviously doesn't care as much and will just let you do your thing.
How long have you been together?
How long have you been together? If you have been together for a few years then you have clearly invested some serious time into this guy. You see something that you don't want to let go of and he isn't just a passing thing. A couple of months isn't as serious, and anything can happen.
Does he know you well?
Does he know you well? Do you tell him pretty much everything, or do you keep your business to yourself? If you find things hard to share then you have to consider how much you really trust him. Do you want to open up to him, or do you just want to keep things pretty light? Opening up is a good thing.
What do your siblings think of him?
What do your siblings think of him? Your siblings only want what is best for you, so you really should listen to what they have to say. they aren't just going to say he is wrong for you just because. Likewise, they aren't going to just fall in love with the guy just because either. They want you to find the best.
Do you trust him?
Do you trust him? Do you trust him with your secrets and with being exclusive to only you? That's a tall order. If he is the man for you he will treat you right and not hurt you. If he isn't the man for you, then he won't care about keeping these promises to you because he won't see you as important.
