Take The Dating Quiz To See If Your Standards Are Too High

We all have that one friend who has unreasonably high standards and isn't afraid to complain about the most trivial aspect of someone else's appearance or personality. And what often makes things ten times worse is that the person who's doing the complaining is usually far from flawless -- whether that means they still live out home with their parents or they're far from a perfect ten in the looks department.

As a result of having such an unrealistic view of themselves and what they think they deserve, this makes finding a potential suitor particularly problematic. But if you don't have a friend like this and you currently find yourself struggling to meet someone who fits all your needs, then that person may be you.

But how do you know if you're simply holding out for Mr. or Mrs. Right or if you actually have an over-inflated sense of yourself? Well, we're here to set the record straight and see if you really know where your priorities are at or if your standards are simply way too high.

The world of dating is already hard enough as it is, and we don't want you to be your own worst obstacle. So let's see if you're really the perfect date or if you seriously need to temper your expectations.

Question 1

If your date offers to pay for your meal, you would…

There’s nothing better than a free meal! But if you’re new to dating someone, maybe you’d feel guilty hijacking their wallet and offer to go dutch. Or maybe you know that you deserve to be treated right, and you go ahead and order up the surf and turf.

Question 2

What’s your current living situation?

Are you one of those people who’s quick to criticize someone’s living circumstances when you’re still shacked up with your parents? Or have you been paying your own rent/ mortgage for years now, and are just interested in a partner who can handle the same level of responsibility?

Question 3

Would you not date someone if you considered them too short?

This is more often a problem for women as it is men, as you’ve probably heard of a number of females who add height requirements to their dating profiles. But is it really appropriate to alienate a huge percentage of the population just for a few extra inches?

Question 4

How do you feel about Ryan Gosling?

Ryan Gosling may be considered one of the smoothest and most attractive men in Hollywood. But if you have extremely high standards, we’re sure you’ll find something to complain about anyway. So how do you feel about the actor who has appeared in such hits including The Notebook and Drive?

Question 5

How do you feel about Elizabeth Oslen?

While her twin sisters Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen continue to fade further into obscurity, Elizabeth Olson has recently starred in a string of hit movies thanks to her turn as the Scarlet Witch in the Marvel Cinematic Universe. But how do you feel about her looks-wise?

Question 6

If you’re picking someone up for your first date, you would…

Sure, it’s way easier (and less awkward) to just sit behind the wheel of your car and send out a text when you arrive at someone’s house. But is this really the impression you want to make at the onset of a first date?

Question 7

What would be your ideal first date?

Most people would probably agree that a first date should be fairly cheap and something noncommittal. This is why most people end up talking over coffee for their first outing — to see if they really want to commit an entire evening to a date in the near future.

Question 8

What’s your biggest pet peeve in the dating world?

Dating is already awkward enough, and things only become infinitely worse if your date seems like they’re living on another planet entirely. But out of all of these dating don’ts, which one of these quirks would leave you the most annoyed?

Question 9

How many dates do you believe the man should pay for?

Though a number of gender traditions seem to be fading into obscurity, most people still consider it proper for the man to pay for the first date. Maybe you disagree with this entirely. Or maybe you think that men should always be the ones to front the bill.

Question 10

Would you date someone who is slightly overweight?

While you could always make the argument against dating someone that is overweight because you take your health very seriously, what about someone who is only carrying around an extra 10 - 15 pounds? Would you still consider this a deal breaker?

Question 11

Would you ever walk out on a date if someone didn’t look like they presented themselves online?

Obviously, if someone walks in who is literally not the person that you saw online, you have every right to flee the scene. But what if they simply went to great lengths to make themselves look better in pictures? Is this still grounds for walking out on them?

Question 12

Would you expect your significant other to continuously surprise you with gifts?

At the beginning of a relationship, you usually can’t wait to surprise your significant other with an unexpected gift or event. But the longer you’ve been dating, the harder this becomes to keep up. Or are you one of those people that expects a constant flow of surprises?

Question 13

After a date, would you be upset if your date didn’t text you goodnight?

Are you a fan of the three-day rule — meaning that you should have three days without communication following the first date? Or have times changed enough that you want to hear from your date immediately afterward to know whether or not they’re interested in you?

Question 14

Would you refuse to date someone if they drove an old, beat-up car?

They say that you can tell a lot about someone from their car. But let’s say you’ve gotten to know someone first and you’re a fan of their looks and personality, but then you find out that they’re driving around in an old beater. Are all bets suddenly off?

Question 15

How many hours a week do you work out?

If you haven’t gone on a run or picked up a weight in years, yet you expect your date to be in tip-top shape, then we’d have to say that you’re a massive hypocrite. Or maybe you’re extremely well-off and you can land a date no matter how you look.

Question 16

What do you think about Leonardo DiCaprio?

Most women (and plenty of heterosexual men) can’t help but fawn over Leonardo DiCaprio. He’s appeared in a number of massive hits, including Titanic and The Departed before finally winning the Academy Award for The Revenant. But how do you feel about his overall physical appearance?

Question 17

What do you think about Kim Kardashian?

Few figures in popular culture are as polarizing as Kim Kardashian. While some people maintain that she is some kind of misunderstood genius, others see her as a rich brat who is exceedingly vapid. So which side of the spectrum do you tend to favor?

Question 18

If your date has something in their teeth, you would…

While trying to impress, there’s a good chance that you’ll start overthinking every little thing you say and ever facial expression you make. And everyone knows how embarrassing it is to find out that they’ve had something in their teeth the entire time. So would you help your date out?

Question 19

What do you look for most in a partner?

If you’re number one criteria for finding a potential partner is always based on looks, there’s a good chance that you’re setting your standards way too high. While attraction is certainly a vital component, it shouldn’t be your only priority.

Question 20

What would you do if your dates phone started ringing?

Let’s say you’re in the midst of telling your date about your current job and their pocket starts to vibrate. Would you be accommodating and tell them they can take the call if they have to? Or would you bristle at the interruption?

Question 21

What would you do if your phone starts ringing during a date?

The thing about people with high standards is that they are often way too hard on other people, while they continue to give themselves a pass. So do you think you have a right to answer your phone when you considered it rude for someone else to do the same?

Question 22

How do you feel about a man who surprises a woman with flowers on the first date?

A guy shows up for a first date and surprises the woman with flowers — we’ve seen this gesture dozens of times in romantic movies. But do you actually think this is a romantic gesture in the modern world? Or does it come off as a bit desperate and unoriginal?

Question 23

Would you ever date someone that you thought was less attractive than you?

This is easily the number one way to tell if someone has standards that are too high — they boldly refuse to date someone that they deem as less attractive then them. In fact, many will only consider potential suitors that are waaaay out of their league. Good luck with that.

Question 24

If your date wants to do something that was not part of the plan, what would you do?

Let’s say you were on your way to get coffee when your date says they’ve developed a bit of an appetite. Would you be accommodating enough to change course for a full-blown restaurant? Or are you suddenly offended that they would even think about altering the plans?

Question 25

If your date doesn’t compliment your appearance, you would…

Do you need to constantly have your ego stroked to feel confident? Or do you believe that people should always offer up compliments during a first date? While some people believe that they’re always do a certain amount of adoration, other people couldn’t care less.

Question 26

What do you usually end up talking about on a first date?

If it’s a blind date or you barely know the person that’s sitting across from you, then finding steady conversation throughout a first date can be a bear. So in this instance, do you look to some of the most traditional topics? Or do you let them steer the ship?

Question 27

What do you do in the midst of an awkward silence?

Maybe the greatest fear going into any first date is that you will have to endear a number of awkward silences. So do you always keep a couple of go-to ideas in your back pocket in expectation of this? Or do you pray that they break the silence first?

Question 28

What is appropriate first date attire?

Do you think it’s time to finally drop the formalities around dating? Why go to such great lengths to impress someone when you’d eventually have to drop the charade anyway? Or do you believe that there are certain traditions and unspoken expectations for a reason?

Question 29

Do you believe the guy should always hold the door?

Are you a traditionalist who always believe that the guy should hold open the door and pay for the first date? Or could you not care less about this issue? More importantly, do you think that you always deserve special treatment?

Question 30

How do you feel about texting during a first date?

Are you one of those people that starts to get antsy if they haven’t checked their phone in the last 10 minutes? If you are, we certainly hope you can reign in your anxiety to make it through an hour-long date.

Question 31

What do you want most out of a relationship?

Are you dating simply so other people will be jealous of how attractive you and your partner are together? Or how much money you’ll have now that you have two incomes? Or are you simply looking for some lifelong companionship?

Question 32

If you tell your date what your favorite movie is and they say they absolutely hate it, how would you react?

Maybe the easiest way to find common ground is to start talking about the movies, music, and TV shows you’re currently into. But if your date doesn’t share the same taste in your favorite movie, would you fly off the handle or be able to keep it together?

Question 33

How do you feel about Jason Statham?

For many men who are balding, celebrities like Bruce Willis, Dwayne Johnson, and Jason Statham offer up a strong beacon of hope. So do you accept this ruggedly handsome actions star for who he is. Or do you think he’s still a bit lacking in the looks department?

Question 34

How do you feel about Hayden Panettiere?

Most audiences became familiar with Hayden Panettiere back when she starred in Disney’s Remember the Titans when she was still a young child. While she’s certainly grown up since then, height wise, the actress only stands at 5’0”. Would this be too short for you?

Question 35

How much time do you spend online shopping?

People who constantly preoccupy themselves with the latest fashion trends probably spend a good deal of time online shopping. This also means that there’s a good chance they’d prefer a partner who is consistently well-dressed and fashionable. So how much time do you spend surfing the web for purchases?

Question 36

Must your date be well-endowed?

While this means two very different things for men and women, either way, are you someone that requires a certain physical attribute out of your partner? Or are you able to date someone who may be a bit on the less than average side of the spectrum?

Question 37

How long does it take you to pick out what you’re going to wear on a date?

Do you believe that what you wear on a date will either make or break the experience? If so, this may also mean that you tend to judge other peoples’ appearances quite harshly. So do you put too much importance in clothing?

Question 38

Are you in debt?

Are you drowning in a sea of student debt? Or do you have an online shopping addiction that can never be satisfied? If this is the case, you shouldn’t expect someone with loads of money to swoop you off your feet and handle the debt for you.

Question 39

Do you own your own car?

If you’re quick to criticize someone’s beat up vehicle, but you don’t even own a car of your own, then you definitely have to put yourself in check. Or maybe you bought your last vehicle without any help from your parents and you have every right to critique their car.

Question 40

Should a first date always end in a kiss?

Are you one of those creepy guys who expects a kiss at the end of every date? The fact of the matter is that just because you’ve held open doors and picked up the check doesn’t mean that a woman needs to allow you to put the moves on her.

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